Dear Readers, Thanks for all your heartfelt responses to my last blog, The Life I Stopped Leaving. I was surprised by how much of it resonated with so many of you. A few readers asked specifically how estrangement had become one of the outcomes of seven years of sober living. I understand why that feels difficult to reconcile. Estrangement is not a benefit of sobriety. It hurts deeply. For this reason, I feel it is worth sharing my thoughts on it with you today. I could explore estrangement...

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